A lot of western men dream about making a family with a Russian or Urkainian lady. When it comes to the point many of these guys wish to know: what disparity in years is o. K. For a Russian girl? Is it possible to find a woman who will be 8, 9, 11, 14 and even 19 years younger than he is? Westerners know that such an disproportion in age is almost impractical in the USA. That’s the reason why they get so surprised getting letters from beautiful women 12-16 years younger than they are. Moreover they are astonished that these girls are well-educated (managers, lowyers, doctors, accountants). Yes, it’s real and it occurs in Eastern Europe. Women are beautiful and smart there. And most of them grow wiser earlier than western ladies. Possibly it happens because of difficult life-conditions, girls have to grow up early. Moreover a woman feels herself safe near an older husband.
From the other side, you should not have too high contemplations. If you are in your late 50’s or 60’s, you must not expect to find a 20-year old single girl. A lot of beautiful, attractive in their late 30s or 40s will be happy to become your wife; half of marriage agencies’ women clients belong to this age group, and you won’t have troubles with attracting their attention. This is possible. Sure if you are very handsome, or very clever/wealty/well-known, you can make it with an disparity of years of even 20 years or more. But it would be an exception, not the tradition.
Do not believe young agent of marriage agencies who will tell you that many dream about older men. That’s not true. And what is more – that’s just a myth, a fairy-tale for trusting clients. If you want to make a strong family you can’t forget about disproportion in age. Actually many ladies feel good with men who are 10-15 years older than they are, very seldom the disproportion in age may be up to 18 years. But do not make it larger than 20 years or you sure will have problems with you young wife in family life. If you can get her at all. Statistics reveals that such families as a rule last not more than two years.
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The other thing is that the older a woman the less age gap is acceptable for her. For example a 21-year old lady may have no troubles with a guy of 35, but a lady of 35 may think that a westerner in his 50’s is old for her. That occures because many of foreigners search for Russian girls and older women received the chance to choose and to be selective. Young women are more spoony and less ultimate. They feel more assured and secure by the older and dependable man.
The thing is, girls in Easstern Europe wish to have family and children real bad, and that is the main motive pushing them to seek men elsewhere, because in Easstern Europethere is only 88 males for 100 females Statistics.
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According to Russia traditons, a girl have to be married with children; being lonely is a shame. A lady who is unmarried by 23 is considered as “old maid”. Girls 22-28 wish to begin family as soon as possible. The peak of the people’s press on the woman to get married is by the age of 27; after that her family and acquaintances start thinking she will never marry and give up on her; she herself also begins getting used to the idea she will never have a husband. Once girls are accustomed with the idea of never getting married, their demands to a future partner soar. Just getting married to evade the disgrace of being lonely is not ample for them any more.
A western guy has to remember that in reality there are a very few girls who really want a much older man. Probably it seems like it and there are some motives why you could think this way: • She just did not write down age of her probable husband in her ad. • She is searching for a wealthy man and believes that there are more wealthy men among older clients. • She decided that the age is not so important cause she didn’t reflect on it much. • She was told in marriage service that it would be much simpler for her to meet an older man. Anyway nothing is impossible. You can meet a pretty girl 10 or 15 years younger than you are. Just don’t forget to be realistic.
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